When your family faces divorce, the last you want to see is pain in your children's eyes. But unfortunately, divorce can affect your kids in ways you never imagined. I understand your concerns completely. My spouse and I decided to separate a few years ago. After spending years of fighting and disagreeing about the things in our lives, we decided to divorce and move on. My children blamed themselves for the divorce. The turmoil went on for weeks until I contacted a divorce attorney and sought family counseling. Family counseling and the attorney helped my loved ones understand the real reasons for their parents' divorce. The process wasn't easy, but we all managed to get through it. If you need guidance and information about divorce and its effects on children, read my blog. Hopefully, you find the strength to get through the difficult times ahead of you.